5. Keeping her in the loop. It is very possible that what your in-laws feel is fear. You might wonder what it is that your mother-in-law is so afraid of. Well, as a matter of fact, she may think that after marriage her son will not come to visit her as often as he used to. She may also think that her son will change for worse. What you personally can do is to make her believe that your husband will always be her son. Be polite and send your family photos. Invite your parents-in-law to dinner. Visit and phone them on a regular basis. In short, let your husband’s parents be informed and involved.