3. You are not his personal assistant
We ask each other for help. This is a normal thing to do. Do not reject help and do something to change the situation for the better if you know the things depend on you. What we are trying to teach you is to realize that you are nobody’s personal assistant. Do not make your partner believe that you exist to make his life easier and more comfortable. Micro management is what you should never do. Trying to control every step is unreasonable. Let your man feel free to act and resolve his own issues.