2. He is unwilling to take the responsibility
Harmony is an essential thing. Without it your relationship is very likely to fail. Share responsibilities and duties. Being equally responsible is great. If only one of you is responsible for everything, it is tiring. We all need support and assistance. Some guys are too carefree and irresponsible. Is that the case with your man? As a rule, a manly man will always want to dominate and lead the relationship rather than escape from it.