People keep falling in love and this is a positive thing. They think they are created to be with each other for the rest of their lives. However, day by day they start noticing more and more often that something is going wrong. They start fighting and arguing. Is it normal?
Pretty much so! The matter is that each of us is unique with his own feelings and emotions. None of us is perfect and once we realize that the person we live with is not ideal, we feel disappointed. It is never an option to give up on your partner even if you feel that your relationship does not make you as happy as it did a few years ago. It is too easy to completely ruin everything yet what we suggest is that you should try and reconstruct it. When we genuinely love someone there is nothing impossible and we can save our relationship in spite of the fact that the times we are going through are incredibly harsh.
1. Do not remind him of his past relationships
Stop being jealous of his past. Past cannot be changed and it is wrong to keep recalling it. Do not let his past be part of your present. Having a happy future is impossible as long as you keep remembering his ex-girlfriends. Right now he is with you and this is more important. Use your energy and effort to improve your current relationship and create a better future. Work on it together!
2. Inevitable fights
Fighting can sometimes be hardly avoided. You should get ready to fight if need be. If you fight, you are not indifferent to each other. Even fighting can improve your relationship if done correctly. This has nothing to do with physical violence. Fighting means arguing or criticizing each other. There is a fine line between criticism and disrespect. Do not cross that line, because you can only ruin your relationship. Be careful and do not offend your partner. Express your opinion without insults and be ready to hear criticism back.