Sometimes we have stressful days when things keep going wrong from morning till night. It influences us in a variety of ways and then our attitude becomes improper.
It has happened to everybody at least once in their lifetime. However, if you know you have terrible traits, you must consider your behavior, because people can begin to avoid and dislike you.
1. Controlling
Control freaks think that they are the only ones knowing the most efficient way of how to live life. They keep telling people how to accomplish their tasks, cope with challenge, do various activities or solve problems. Managing others’ lives they forget that others are capable of living their lives on their own. A controlling person makes others feel uncomfortable, helpless and weak. Who wants to be around such a person? Nobody wants to feel a loser. Besides, control freaks often get angry if others don’t follow their advice. Let people around you feel free and decide by themselves. You do not know everything and there will always be someone smarter than you. Let others make mistakes and do all possible to maintain your friendships and contacts.
2. Dishonesty
No doubt people lie from time to time. This is inevitable and quite all right unless this is some kind of chronic behavior. However, if you try to hide your mistakes, avoid your responsibility or always want to embellish your life, now it is the time to be concerned. Lies make life very difficult and senseless. A liar must create unreal stories over and over again. When we tell the truth, we feel free and don’t waste our valuable time. Besides, people do not rely on liars, because sooner or later people will find out that you have lied to them.