3. Expecting the man to pay
If you consider yourself a strong woman, then be prepared to pay for your own meals. Independence makes you look self-confident. Nowadays men are not as caring as they used to be centuries ago. Be nice and let the date know that you are a well-off lady who is not looking for free dinners. Do not keep waiting on your date to pay for anything. But if the man insists on paying, then let him do it.
4. Your past relationships is none of his business
Do not let anyone discuss your past life, experience or relationships. All those people you were or still are in relationships with are only your business. This is your first date and letting the man know absolutely everything about you is not necessary at all. Even if the man shows interest, be careful and do not open up too much. Get to know him and see whether you can trust him.