You feel like singing and dancing when you meet someone special. Your days turn into a fairy tale. You go on dates and spend time together. You get to know each other and talk on the phone for hours.

You cannot wait to see each other and when it happens it feels as if you could spend the rest of your life with each other. But what if you see that the man you are in love with has suddenly lost interest in you? You might not know how to explain it, but the real reason is one of the following seven things: 

1. He is seen as an idea or object

It’s not wise of you to reduce your partner to an object. Do not do this if you do not want him to lose interest in you. His individuality and character matter more than the material things he can offer you. Let him take you out. He might want to invite you to a caf? or cinema. It’s great, of course. But these are not the only things you should be interested in. Listen to him, discuss the events and talk about his life and profession.

2. Men do not like clingy women who feel insecure

We tend to change. We date people and they influence us. Our attitude also changes. We become either worse or better. It’s not good if you belong to those who feel insecure. This negative feature may destroy your relationship. Women who feel insecure start being clingy an won’t let the man feel free enough. Insecurity frightens both you and your partner. Try and analyze why you feel insecure. Change your behavior and do not be clingy. Men who happen to deal with clingy ladies tend to end relationships with them pretty soon.