3. They like to be self-aware and show empathy
Experts say that we bring whatever we learn from our parents into our own families and relationships. If your parents knew how to lead a fair fight you are very likely to know how to deal with problems without being rude or irritable. Aggression is no option at all. Control yourself and be the master of your own feelings and emotions. Think before you speak since later on you might regret being too abrupt. Even if there is an argument coming up, you can make it less dramatic if you are ready to listen to your partner. Express your own opinion and let your spouse tell you what he or she wants and expects from the situation.