3. Do not expect sudden change
Events and circumstances make a great influence on our character, temper and mood. Do not expect to see changes in your partner’s character and attitude simply because you told him that it’s time he changed. Quit repeating the same things over and over again. Constant nagging will only lead to more conflicts. What you can do is to try and find a compromise. If your partner is not ready for this, then it’s up for you to decide whether your relationship is worth being saved. Your interests do count!
4. Do not isolate him from his buddies
Isolation can ruin the person. We need to communicate with others even when we have a great life partner. Do not restrict him to communication with you only. Let him meet his best friends and do not be jealous of the fact that he wants to hang out with his pals. Do not focus on him only and switch your attention to something else. Why not call your best friends and have a hen-party? Invite your friends over or go and see them instead. After spending some time with others and distracting yourself you will feel much better, happier and relaxed. Live your life, enjoy it and let your partner be happy as well.