3. Do not expect sudden change
Events and circumstances make a great influence on our character, temper and mood. Do not expect to see changes in your partner’s character and attitude simply because you told him that it’s time he changed. Quit repeating the same things over and over again. Constant nagging will only lead to more conflicts. What you can do is to try and find a compromise. If your partner is not ready for this, then it’s up for you to decide whether your relationship is worth being saved. Your interests do count!